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Think of discipline as a form of teaching, not a form of punishment.
Your child needs to learn how to get along with others and stay safe. .
He's an eager student, but the most important lessons — sharing, patience, cooperation, caution — will take a few years to sink in. .
As his main teacher, it's your job to reinforce the lessons with consistency, patience, and compassion.
No matter how badly your child is behaving, hitting shouldn't be an option.
Spanks and slaps teach children to be afraid of their parents.
And even though you would never intend to hurt your child, it's easy to lose control when you're angry.
If you feel like hitting your child, give yourself a time-out until the feeling passes.
Discipline doesn't always have to be negative.
Praise your child when you "catch" him being good, like sharing a toy with a friend or picking up a mess.
He'll learn that he doesn't have to misbehave to get your attention. .
"Non pas désirer la souffrance en vue du progrès spirituel, mais désirer le progrès spirituel en vue de la pureté de la souffrance." (Simone Weil, Cahier VI)
"Not to desire suffering for the purpose of spiritual progress, but to desire spiritual progress for the purpose of the purity of suffering." (Simone Weil, Cahier VI, my transl.)
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