been here for a while. 🙏🏻
Those who call it too much, just might not be ready for enough.
One should be able to ask you /say anything, even the crazy weird scared insecure silly and all things in between without feeling scared or pressured by criticism or judgment. Making someone feel comfortable being respectfully vulnerable/totally open with anything (isn't really work) it's being the person that doesn't think it's "too much" . Literally if you would like to be comforted, heard, tolerated and brought in (cause every one does no matter what it looks like) do it for someone else. That's each otherness that's not covering up in the best of ways any more