What is the pain you want to sustain? Because you can't go through life without leaving with a couple of scars. Our pain defines our strength and personal growth. For the things you want in life, you create it through your decisions that then creates other problems. You have to face them in order to seek your silver lining. The pain you are willing to go through and have it consistently reminding you where you are and where you want to be is where you will grow from and seek your own success.